Introduction
Sexual exploration is no longer defined by strict roles or limited experiences. More and more men are discovering the benefits of anal play and prostate stimulation, which can lead to intense, full-body orgasms. Among the many tools available, realistic dildos provide one of the most effective ways to explore. But a common question remains: what are the best dildo positions for men? At RealCockToys, we know that comfort, safety, and pleasure should always go hand in hand. That’s why we’ve created this guide to explain the most popular positions for men, how to use them safely, and how to get the most from your anal play experience.
Why Men Should Explore Dildo Play
Anal play isn’t just about trying something new—it’s about unlocking sensations that many men never experience otherwise. The prostate, often called the “male G-spot,” is located just a few inches inside the rectum and is highly responsive to stimulation. Using a dildo can help target this area precisely, delivering waves of pleasure that are different from anything penetrative sex alone can provide. Beyond pleasure, anal play can also build confidence, increase sexual stamina, and improve understanding of one’s body.
Preparing for Anal Play
Before experimenting with different positions, preparation is key. Always start with relaxation, both mentally and physically. A warm shower, deep breathing, or even gentle external massage can help ease tension. Lubrication is non-negotiable—water-based lube is the best choice with silicone toys. Beginners should also consider starting with smaller, slimmer dildos before gradually exploring larger sizes. Cleaning your toy thoroughly before and after play ensures safety and hygiene.
Best Dildo Positions for Men
When it comes to using a dildo, positions matter as much as the toy itself. Different positions allow different levels of depth, angle, and comfort, giving you the freedom to explore what feels best.
One of the most common positions is lying on your back with your knees bent. This position gives you full control over penetration and makes it easier to reach the prostate. Another beginner-friendly option is lying on your side with knees slightly tucked, which allows for slow, gentle insertion and is very comfortable for longer sessions.
For more intensity, the doggy-style position is a favorite. Either on all fours or with your chest resting on the bed, this position allows deeper penetration and a more direct angle toward the prostate. Squatting is another advanced option, as it gives full control over movement but requires balance and leg strength. For hands-free play, suction cup dildos can be attached to a wall or floor, allowing you to back into the toy while experimenting with angles and rhythm.
Tips for Maximizing Pleasure
The key to enjoying these positions is patience and exploration. Start slow, and don’t force depth too quickly. Experiment with different thrusting speeds and angles to discover what stimulates your prostate most effectively. Combine dildo play with external stimulation—such as stroking the penis or using a vibrating cock ring—for powerful blended orgasms. Communication is also crucial if you are playing with a partner. Talk openly about what feels good and adjust together.
Safety and Comfort Considerations
Safety should never be overlooked in anal play. Always choose dildos with a flared base to prevent the toy from slipping too far. Use generous amounts of lube and reapply when necessary. If you feel discomfort or pain, stop immediately and take a break. Hygiene is also essential. Wash your dildo thoroughly with warm water and soap or a toy cleaner after every use, and store it in a clean pouch to keep it ready for next time.
Why Realistic Dildos Are Ideal for Men
Realistic dildos are particularly effective for men because they mimic the natural shape and feel of penetration. Their firmness and texture help target the prostate more accurately, while their range of sizes means there’s something for every level of experience. At RealCockToys, our collection of realistic dildos includes everything from slim beginner options to larger toys designed for advanced play. Each one is made from body-safe silicone to ensure comfort, safety, and long-lasting durability.
Final Thoughts
Exploring anal play with a dildo can be one of the most rewarding experiences for men, offering sensations that are unique, powerful, and deeply satisfying. The best dildo positions for men—whether lying on your back, side, in doggy-style, or using a suction cup toy—allow you to customize your pleasure based on comfort and intensity. With proper preparation, plenty of lube, and attention to safety, you can enjoy prostate stimulation and discover new levels of orgasm.
At RealCockToys, we believe that pleasure is for everyone. Our range of realistic, body-safe dildos is designed to help men explore anal play with confidence and comfort. Whether you are just beginning your journey or looking to expand your collection, our toys provide the perfect balance of realism, durability, and satisfaction. Explore our collection today and find the dildo that matches your body, your desires, and your fantasies.
