Introduction
Dildos are among the most versatile sex toys available, offering endless ways to explore pleasure whether you are alone or with a partner. One of the biggest advantages of using dildos is that they can be incorporated into almost any sexual position, adding variety and excitement to your routine. But many people wonder: what are the best sex positions with dildos? At RealCockToys, we believe that pleasure should be both fun and safe. That’s why we’ve created this comprehensive guide to the best positions, techniques, and safety tips to help you get the most out of your dildo play.

Why Positions Matter
The way you position your body changes how a dildo feels inside you. Different angles can target the G-spot, prostate, or other sensitive areas more effectively. Certain positions give you more control, while others allow a partner to take charge. Positions also influence depth, intensity, and comfort. By experimenting with multiple positions, you can discover which ones make you feel the most satisfied and confident.
Missionary with a Dildo
The classic missionary position can be adapted easily for dildo play. You can lie on your back while holding the toy or use a suction cup dildo attached to a surface. This position provides comfort and control, making it perfect for beginners. Partners can also use this position to simulate penetrative sex, creating intimacy and closeness while experimenting with toys.
Doggy Style with a Dildo
Doggy style is one of the most popular positions with dildos, especially when using a strap-on or suction cup base. The angle is ideal for G-spot or prostate stimulation, and the depth can be adjusted depending on comfort. This position also allows for dominance and submission dynamics, adding intensity for couples who enjoy power play.
Cowgirl or Rider
Straddling a dildo in a cowgirl position gives the receiver complete control over speed, depth, and angle. This can be done with a partner wearing a strap-on or with a suction cup dildo secured to a surface. The upright position also allows for clitoral stimulation during penetration, creating a highly satisfying experience.
Reverse Cowgirl
Similar to cowgirl, but facing away from your partner or the toy’s base, this position provides a new angle of penetration. It’s especially effective for hitting the G-spot and can be used for solo play by straddling a mounted dildo. Reverse cowgirl offers a mix of control and intensity, making it a favorite for many users.
Standing Positions
Standing with a dildo can add excitement and spontaneity. One popular variation is standing doggy style against a wall with a suction cup dildo. Another option is standing face-to-face with a partner using a strap-on, which allows for deep, intimate thrusting. Standing positions often require balance and strength but can feel adventurous and highly erotic.
Spooning with a Dildo
Spooning is an intimate and comfortable position perfect for slower, more sensual play. With a partner wearing a strap-on, this position allows for gentle thrusting while maintaining close physical contact. For solo play, you can use a dildo in spooning to enjoy penetration without needing to hold the toy upright.
Sitting and Chair Positions
Using a dildo while sitting on a chair provides stability and control. Straddling a suction cup dildo attached to the seat lets you ride comfortably while controlling the pace. This position is discreet, easy to set up, and allows for hands-free stimulation of other erogenous zones.
Advanced Positions
For experienced users, advanced positions like squat riding, leg-up missionary, or using two dildos at once can create intense sensations. However, these positions require more flexibility, preparation, and lube. They’re best for users who already feel confident with toy play and want to push their limits safely.
Safety Tips for Dildo Positions
No matter which position you choose, safety should always come first. Use plenty of lube to reduce friction and increase comfort. Make sure your dildo has a flared base if used for anal play to prevent accidents. Clean your toy before and after each session to avoid infection. And most importantly, listen to your body—pain is a sign to stop or adjust, not push through.
Why RealCockToys Dildos Work Best
At RealCockToys, our dildos are designed with both pleasure and safety in mind. Made from body-safe, medical-grade silicone, they come in a wide range of sizes, shapes, and textures to suit every desire. Whether you’re exploring beginner positions or advanced play, our collection offers realistic, durable toys that enhance every experience.
Final Thoughts
Sex positions with dildos open the door to endless possibilities, from simple beginner-friendly setups to advanced and adventurous play. Positions like missionary, doggy style, cowgirl, and spooning provide comfort and intimacy, while standing or advanced positions bring intensity and excitement. The key is to explore, experiment, and discover what works best for your body and your fantasies.
At RealCockToys, we believe that pleasure should be about freedom and safety. With the right dildo and the right position, you can enjoy experiences that are exciting, satisfying, and uniquely your own. Explore our catalog today to find the perfect toy for your journey and make every position a path to unforgettable pleasure.